People who are sick and tired of their lives have to deal with things differently. People are different, so it is only normal that they deal with things in their own way. When people are frustrated and desperate about their lives, some will just accept it as it is, but there are those people who will express dissatisfaction and seek improvement. They refuse to take things as they are and they express distaste by refusing to accept what was just handed onto to them. They believe that their destinies are not written in stone, and they will do all they can to improve the quality of their lives.
The Barriers to Self Development
When people seek to develop their lives, it is quite unfortunate that not everyone gets to meet victory. Unfortunately, while dreaming and wanting self-improvement is free for all, some people will have exhausted all their energy to no avail. At the end, you will have accomplished nothing. Do you care to wonder why?
Well, there are known barriers to self-development and they are the following:
Being too preoccupied with other things: There are only 24 hours in a day. Sometimes, people feel the pressure of time constraints, so they try to do things at the same time. Due to this, people never get around to doing all the things that they ought to do, especially the ones that means the most to their development. Inundated by a lot of things: Distractions come in all forms. When you are easily distracted from your goal, you can lose your way and lose focus, altogether.
Constricted mind: A person who lives in a box finds it harder to grow. They have gotten used to confinement and defined borders that they find it difficult to stretch and explore the outside world. Their imagination is too limited and this prohibits them from seeing more, doing more and being more.
Encountering failure: Errors and mistakes, especially to those who find it hard to channel out from it, can be so damaging. When your past failures are much to grave to shake off and forget, it can haunt you and disable you completely.
Lack of support systems. Man’s natural support systems are the people around them; family and friends. When a person does not have the support of the people around him or if he has no one to turn to, for assistance, the journey becomes a little tougher and more impossible, sometimes.
Overcoming the Barriers
Every problem has a solution. When you know that there are barriers blocking your way to the acme of your dreams, you need to find a way to get rid of these problems, so you can just move forward and move on.
If you are having problems with focus and distractions, find a way to channel out the distractions from your vision, so that you can just pay attention on things that matter the most. If you are having problems with fear, then find means to invigorate yourself, so that you will be more capable of fighting. The presence of family and friends is important in self-development so it is important that you make them a part of your journey.